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Take a deep breath with me, and let's dive in. There was a season in my life when I woke up at yet another rest stop after sleeping in a GeoMetro for the fourth week in a row and thought, how did I get here? The car was rented on a borrowed credit card, my belongings were packed in the backseat, luckily my bestie was with me, and together we were chasing a dream that on paper probably looked reckless to almost everyone around us. At the time, we were creating photographic jewelry and had this big, bold idea that we could leave cold and dreary upstate New York and head south to sunny Florida to build something of our own.
We had almost no money, no polished business plan, no safety net, but what we did have was grit, positive attitudes, and a shared spiritual path with this fierce determination to live as independent artists and make something work. We were willing to go against the grain, very much to our family's chagrin. And if that wasn't enough, I was also recovering from a serious injury.
I had fallen 12 feet through a floor onto the basement floor, and I ended up with 24 stitches on my face and multiple tooth fractures. At that point in my life, taking 12 Advil a day had been normal just to get through the pain. So, this was not some glamorous road trip with cute entrepreneurial freedom energy.
This was discomfort, uncertainty, physical pain, and spiritual conviction. And this was me in real time learning what leadership actually asks of us long before we have the title, the proof, or a polished story. And this is what I want to talk to you about today.
Because this part of my journey is not a traditional success story. I cannot tell you that we rolled into Florida, landed department stores, got picked up by all the right upscale boutiques, and watched the whole thing magically take off. We did not.
But I can tell you that this was a season that shaped me in ways that success alone could never have shaped me in. It taught me about self-trust, resilience. It taught me about partnership.
It taught me that sometimes taking the leap is not about guaranteeing the outcome. It's about becoming the kind of person who knows how to leap. I want you to hear that.
And whether you're an entrepreneur, an executive, or someone standing at the edge of a life decision that feels risky or unconventional or deeply personal, I think there's something here for you. Because not all leadership lessons happen in boardrooms. Some happen in borrowed cars, in pain, in uncertainty, in the moments when you have nothing to lean on except what's inside of you.
One of the first lessons that that season taught me was self-efficacy. At some point, there has to be a willingness to believe in yourself before the evidence arrives. Not blindly, not arrogantly, but with enough inner conviction to say, I don't know exactly how this is going to unfold, but I'm willing to back myself.
That matters so much in leadership. Because there will be seasons when the path is not validated yet, when people around you don't understand your decision, when the metrics are just not there, when the role is stretching you, when you're doing something for the very first time. And in those moments, self-efficacy becomes more than confidence.
It becomes a practice of internal steadiness. And if you've listened to the pod before, you know that that is a core foundation of my coaching, is this inner calm confidence, this grounded sensibility, this practice of saying, I can learn, I can adapt, I can try, I can recover, I can keep going. And I recently heard, and I don't know who said it, but it stuck with me.
And they said it used to be survival of the fittest, but now it is survival of those most adaptable. I love that. And it just reminds me of this season that I'm sharing with you, this season that also taught me the importance of being connected to a deeper why.
We were chasing freedom, expression, possibility, and a life that felt true to who we were. Now, did we know what we were doing at every turn? Absolutely not. But we were connected to something deeper than comfort.
And I think this is where a lot of people get lost. They want the courage of a meaningful life without staying connected to the meaning. Your why will not always make things easy, but it will help make the hard things feel like they're worth carrying.
In fact, whenever I do an individual development plan with a leader, once we get through outlining goals and outcomes and all the measures and all the things, at the end where it's really what is the goal? Is this worth getting to? I always ask them, are the outcomes and measures sexy enough for you to do the actions that you want me to hold that space of accountability for? And they just kind of look at me because we're not going to put the work in if the outcome isn't sexy enough, isn't connected to your deep why, isn't worth making the hard things and the action and the discipline worth feel like they're carrying. I hope that you're picking up what I'm putting down because for some of you listening, that deeper why may be your mission. For some, it may be your family, your integrity, or a deep desire to stop abandoning yourself, whatever it is.
When you're connected to a deeper why, you can withstand more discomfort without betraying yourself in the process. Another lesson I learned was the power of collaboration. I was not doing this alone.
There is something sacred about having someone beside you who shares a vision and also shares the effort and the risk. Even when two people bring very different strengths, there is still a power in moving together. Maybe you have an experience that you can relate to with this.
In that chapter, my role became sales. And let me tell you, I had zero experience, none. But my partner said something like, you'll be better at it than me.
And if we want to earn enough for rent, you better learn. And so I did. Up and down the Florida coast, I carried our jewelry board into upscale boutiques and attempted to convince store owners why they needed our line.
That was not comfortable for me. That was not familiar. That was not something I felt naturally prepared to do.
But it taught me that leadership often means stepping into the role that is needed, not just the one you already feel qualified for. Sometimes leadership looks like learning on your feet. Sometimes it looks like borrowing belief from someone who sees capacity in you before you even fully see it and acknowledge it.
Sometimes it looks like showing up unpolished but willing. That is such an important lesson for mission-driven leaders. You don't have to feel fully ready before you take the next brave step.
Sometimes readiness is built in motion. And it can be scary, but real. That chapter also taught me that perseverance will take you to places intellect alone cannot.
Now, don't get me wrong. And if you know me, you know I love learning and depth and insight and wisdom. But there's a kind of learning that only comes from lived experience.
Boots on the ground, hard knocks, real conversations, rejection, uncertainty, adaptation. There is a grit that gets forged when you have to keep going without guarantees. And I think that matters because many brilliant people stay stuck waiting to feel more certain and prepared, more polished, more endorsed.
Meanwhile, life is asking them to step forward and learn by doing. Perseverance is not always glamorous, my friend. It's often humble, quiet, very unglamorous, and repetitive.
But it builds a kind of strength that cannot be faked. Oh my goodness. And in today's world, where quite frankly, it's getting more and more difficult to know what's real and what's not.
So to have this kind of strength inside of you, it's going to be such a differentiator in a sea of sameness. And then there's this lesson, which may be my favorite. Push beyond your comfort zone because you don't know what's possible for you until you try.
And I'm not saying every risk is wise. I'm not saying every leap will end in an outcome that you hoped for. This is really important.
We're not trying to paint the canvas with butterflies and rainbows because it's not that. And I'm definitely not romanticizing struggle for the sake of struggle. But I am saying that some of the most defining moments in your life will come from the choices that ask you to stretch beyond the known version of yourself.
Not because success is guaranteed, but because growth is. That road trip chapter did not give me the outcome I thought I wanted. But it gave me something deeper.
It built my self-trust. And I want to pause here because I think this is the heart of the episode. Building self-trust may be one of the greatest gifts that you can give yourself.
No one can take that away from you. When you know who you are, when you learn to listen to your inner wisdom, when you stop outsourcing every decision to fear, approval, or conventional expectations, you become far more powerful. Not loud or forceful or performative, but anchored.
You become someone who can hear the noise around you without abandoning the truth within you. And yeah, sometimes the choices that you make will absolutely look cuckoo to others. It'll look unconventional, and that's okay.
Some of you may choose a path in leadership, work, relationships, or life that other people don't understand. That doesn't make it automatically wrong. Sometimes it means you're being asked to trust what is true for you before it makes sense to everyone else.
That is a very real part of leadership. Because leadership is not just managing people or driving results. Leadership is the willingness to be in relationship with uncertainty.
And here is the thing I want you to highlight, and still move with integrity. So this particular story is not the story of instant success. It's not a story of a neat and polished win.
But it is a story of truth and effort, of pain, of courage, of lessons learned in the field. It was one run on the ladder. Not the whole ladder, and I think that matters too.
Because some of you may be in a rung right now that doesn't look impressive from the outside. A season that feels messy. A chapter that's stretching you.
A risk that maybe hasn't paid off yet. A role that's asking you more than what you expected or signed up for. Please do not confuse one rung for your whole story.
This may not be the chapter where everything clicks. But it may be the chapter where something essential gets built inside of you. And that may matter even more.
So if I could leave you with one thing today, it would be do not underestimate the seasons that don't look successful on paper. They may be developing your courage. They may be clarifying your values.
They may be strengthening your voice. They may be teaching you how to trust yourself. They may be preparing you to lead in a way that is far more grounded, compassionate, and true.
And if you're standing at the edge of something uncertain right now, whether that's a business idea, a leadership decision, a hard conversation, or even a whole damn reinvention, simply choosing to honor what your inner knowing has been whispering to you is very important. And I want you to remember this. You do not have to know the whole story.
You only need enough courage for the next run on the ladder. If you like to learn these little tidbits and have more of a personal touch, let me know. I'm happy to include it.
It's really kind of fun, actually, to dive back into my memory bank. Thank you so much for being here with me today, for letting me share a piece of my story with you. This one was a little tender and a little gritty, unconventional, but deeply true.
And maybe that is the kind of leadership we need more of. Not just polished leadership or proven leadership, but honest leadership, human leadership. The kind built from lived experiences, from self-reflection, and from the willingness to keep becoming.
Until next time, my friend, trust what is being built in you. Thank you so much for listening.
